Showing posts with label death. Show all posts
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Friday, October 25, 2013

My GG has been Promoted To Glory!

 Now let me clarify.....she is technically my grandma, but since we have had kiddos, (a long time now) we collectively have always referred to her as GG.  She passed away last Friday night, and her funeral was yesterday. 
 THIS is my grandma's legacy!  This right here- all these beautiful faces!!  There were 25 People gathered!  Of course some wives and kiddos, and my cousin's family that is in Taiwan doing mission work couldn't make it. 
 But this....
 crazy
 fun
 loving
 family- we are her legacy in this world. 
 As if that was not enough......there are many many many many more!  Carrying on the name of Jesus as well that my grandfather and grandmother ministered to over the years. 
 Here is her obituary......
GEER, Ethel F. After a long, rich life of love and service to her Savior, Ethel Florence Geer, 92, of Brandon, walked into Heaven on Friday, Oct. 18, 2013. Ethel was born in Salina, KS, on April 6, 1921, to Clarence and Letia Shannon. She was the oldest of 12 children. Brigadiers LeClaire "Bud" and Ethel Geer were officers in the Salvation Army in the Midwest for more than 45 years. She was a "Crusader" upon her commissioning and ordination in 1941. They served in 17 appointments, the last one being at the Rockford Adult Rehabilitation Center, where they oversaw the building of a new residence. After her retirement, Ethel continued to be active in many capacities, including serving as the Home League Secretary and Chaplain at the St. Petersburg ARC. Many lives were influenced for the Kingdom during her lifetime. Preceding her in death were her parents, Clarence Jay and Letia Maude Shannon; her husband of 47 years, LeClaire Eugene Geer; her son, Paul Geer; her granddaughter, Heather Dawn Tejada; and her siblings, Margaret (Don) Yeagley, Arthur (Anita) Shannon, Gladys (Wayne) Denny, Mary Alice (Elton) Knight, James Shannon and Austin Gay. Ethel is survived by her children, Brenda (David) Flatness & Rebecca (Douglas) Stearns; her loving daughter-in-law, Marla Jane Geer; and her eight grandchildren; and 23 great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her siblings, Letia Mae Gay, Jack (Barbara) Shannon, David (Glenna) Shannon, Carol Shannon, Charles (Bobbie) Shannon, Clara (Del) Herbel and Clarence "Joe" (Cheryl) Shannon; nieces & nephews; and many extended family members & friends.The visitation will be at The Salvation Army St. Petersburg Corps, 3800 9th Ave. North, on Oct. 24th, at from 12-2 pm, with the service following at 2 pm. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to The Salvation Army.
 She prayed faithfully for her own family!  The oldest of 12- SEE larger family run in my family!  :) 
 She got to see her own parents come to know the Lord! 
 She and my grandfather led many hearts to Christ. 
 The modeled Faith in Action to their family! 
 And their children all modeled it for their families! 
 When I think of how sometimes we underplay how important being a Christ Follower is when it comes to - I am only a mom or a dad.  I only help lead Sunday School or I only help with camp once a year.  I only help with parking at the church.  I only .........

I think- THERE IS NO SUCH THING!  Every time we serve the Lord- HE is faithful to Bless others through that! 
 I think of my own children.  Our lives could be very very very different had it not been for the faithfulness of my grandmother. 
 What if we didn't have Faith?  Would we have even adopted? 
We wouldn't have spent years in the camping ministry. 
 In turn would our marriage have made it? 
Our faith is the foundation- the reason we bother getting up in the mornings! 
 The reason all these children are special to me and my cousin!  The reason we fight daily for every child to have a family- a Christian Family who will teach them about the love of Jesus!  The reason we know all life is precious!
 The reason we sing about Him daily!  The reason we do devotion time which was important to my GG, to our family growing up, and in turn why we do devotions in our home now! 
 Our lives have been indeed BLESSED! 
 THIS is what I want my legacy to be.  It isn't easy.  It doesn't even look pretty sometimes.  Sometimes you want to throw in the towel.  But when you daily get on your knees, read the Bible, and pray for your children, grand children, and great grandchildren- God is Faithful! 
 He guides your steps as hard as some days may be......
 I just think about all those who are in heaven now because of my GG's life and it makes me cry those happy tears of JOY! 
 That JOY UNSPEAKABLE!
 This.....is just her body I told our kids as they cried for the loss........
 Cause you see.......it is cold and empty......she is no longer with us- she is WITH JESUS! 
 ONE DAY EVERY KNEE WILL BOW AND EVERY TONGUE CONFESS THAT JESUS IS LORD!!!!  ONE DAY!  I WILL BE THERE- WILL YOU? 
 My GG is up in heaven singing praises to a Savior she knew personally!  One that she worshipped daily.  One she knew through her personal study of Scripture!  One she deeply devoted her whole life to!  He was her ROCK! 
 That is what has been passed on............. 
 This was from Christmas time!  It was a pleasure to live only a mileish from GG for the past few years!  Our children have spent many hours with GG.  Singing worship songs to her during every visit!  Telling her about our latest crazy life stories.  Jason always making her laugh at something. 
 THIS is my GG's legacy!  She has made an imprint on our hearts!  Taught us what it means to be faithful.  What it means to share God with everyone you meet.  What it means to really serve the Lord and others! 

Psalm 27:4 (NIV)

4One thing I ask from the Lord,
    this only do I seek:
that I may dwell in the house of the Lord
    all the days of my life,
to gaze on the beauty of the Lord
    and to seek him in his temple.
I love seeing the JOY we had in sharing with GG.........
ONE DAY- I want to be just like GG!! 

My hope is in this alone....One Day I will be rejoicing in the presence of MY SAVIOR and KING with her!!!  What a day of rejoicing that will be!!!!!

Romans 8:31-35; 37-39

New International Version (NIV)

More Than Conquerors

31 What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34 Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?
 
37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[a] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.
 
AMEN!!!!!!

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

How we became a family.....a shortened version :)

 So this is Jason and I back in 2000 our very first of 3 homestudies that have been updated each several times :)  A visiting camp friend took it for us, and at the time we were in Iowa serving at a Christian Camp.  We had been married 4 years which at the time was the allotted time frame you had to be married to adopt domestically.  Of course God opened our hearts to foster care, and a camping friend that had another friend was fostering this precious little girl from the time she was 5 months until she was 14 months.   They were grand parent age though and wanted to find a great family to adopt her.....
 We just got our foster care license in February 2001 and we just got back from a National Camp Gathering when we got a phone call about a beautiful toddler who would eventually become our Abigail.  Of course there was a possible biological father that stepped in the day of the termination hearing....BUMP....and then we had to pass an interview......BUMP....in which they told us they were interviewing people who had darker skin.....BUMP!  Praise God we were chosen and she came to live with us permanently. 
 This is a day trip to France we took when we flew to England to show off the new grand daughter to Jason's family. 
 In January 2002 after initial BIG BUMP of Andrew not being placed with us until he was 7 1/2 weeks old (he was not with his biological mom it was a political type thing). 
 He then came home to us and we celebrated in a big way later that year Abigail Marie Wright officially joined our family June 19th!!!  Yeah!!!  Of course there were a few more BUMPS in the system as we waited to hear if Andrew would join our family forever or not. 
 But we kept believing, loving, caring, and praying......
 And staring at these 2 precious faces.......and then we found out that year that another little baby would be joining us later..........
 Matthew came to join us at the end of year November 27th he was born :)  He came home with us 2 days later a day after Thanksgiving!!  YEAH!  And we found out that for a gift in 2003 in January 6th we would officially adopt Andrew James Wright!  YEAH!!!!  Another huge blessing.
 Oooops these next two photos are out of order sorry......but these were in 2003 & 2004...of course you can kind of tell because Matthew can't walk in the photo below, but up above he is walking around Silver Dollar City with my parents :)
 So here we were and then at the end of 2003 and after a few more BUMPS.....and bruises we were able to adopt Matthew December 22nd, 2003.  YEAH!!!  Now most people would look at our family as complete....wonderful....cute....one girl two boys......all very squeezable!
 I mean really look at these three charmers! 
 Then in 2004 after moving to Louisiana we took the foster care classes again....I mean there are sooo many children that still need homes and we could help out if only temporarily.  So we signed up leaving our children with volunteers from the camp so we could take the weekly classes. 
 And 2 weeks before our summer staff arrived in May of 2005- Joshua weeks shy of 3 years old and Sarah who had just turned 1 came to us.  Can you see the mischief in their eyes?  Yeah me too.  Our hands were full, we were a lot of times overwhelmed, but we were loving every minute of it!
 Oh yeah, just to make it more fun we had Hurricane Rita blow through our neck of the woods and had to evacuate 4 months after they came here!  You know just to make things more interesting!  he he he he :)   Just to make it more interesting after we returned to find our home with little damage Praising God and getting electricity back.....we had to leave for England.  This was a trip we had been planning well before we knew of our placement of Joshua and Sarah.  In case you are wondering, yes this caused a few setbacks, but in the end we overcame that.  But it broke our hearts to leave them for 2 weeks nonetheless. 
 Then in May 2006 Elizabeth 5 1/5 months came to us.  Now after TOO MANY BUMPS TO COUNT in Joshua, Sarah, and now Elizabeth's case and 2 years later we were still hitting BRICK WALLS EVERYWHERE!!!  Praise God their smiles and love kept our hearts on them and not the world who by then thought we must be out of our right mind. 
 But I mean look at this cuteness!!!  Elizabeth was a doll and by now we really had thought we were getting closer to the end of the journey. 
 Well......that didn't happen.  And instead MORE AND MORE BUMPS  came along.  Did I mention any and everything that could happen in a foster care case did.....on and on......
 And yet again......we couldn't get enough of our crazy life!  And by then you must be thinking they are done- right?  I mean 6 children! 
 Here we are at my younger brother Scott & Amy's wedding day.  We traveled back up to Iowa to share in their special day. 
 FINALLY!!!!!  In March 19th 2008 we were able to adopt Joshua David Wright, Sarah Joy Wright, Elizabeth Anne Wright!!!!!!!!!!!!!  This was a long time coming and believe me it was a time of GREAT rejoicing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  As God would have it this special day came the week of Easter- how perfect! 
 Here we are at the Smokies...enjoying our hiking!  :)  Then the day after the adoption (ok truth be told it may have been a few day before the official day) we sent in our application to All God's Children to do an Ethiopian adoption!  Oh yeah, by this time we were already nuts and just heading down the slope :)
 We were matched with our Hannah Grace (upset because I couldn't find her picture right now in the archives) within a couple of months of signing up and we weren't finished with our home study yet.  God matched us anyway and we worked like crazy people in the middle of summer our busiest time to get our dossier and homestudy completed!  She had spina bifida and scoliosis....but we didn't see that we saw a perfect baby girl that was meant to be in our arms forever. Whew....we did it....we got a court date for August 4th.....and then Hannah Grace went to be with Jesus July 18th.....  BUMP!!!!
 After getting away from it all on vacation we were matched with this handsome man.  Of course if you know about Ethiopian adoptions you know that the courts in Ethiopia close August September timeish.  We had 3 court dates before we finally passed.  Ethiopia started a new government agency called the Central Agency.  BUMP!!!  So rather than flying in October, November.....
 We flew December 26th, 2009 and met our Jonathan on December 28th....flying home January 2nd. 
 How can you fly to Ethiopia and not be changed forever?  After seeing the beautiful, kind hearted, loving people that are our brothers and sisters. 
 At the Ethiopian dinner night out with our travel group.  By the way for those adopting now you have to make two trips, but back then it was one. 
 Our hotel.....
 Jonathan's family- aren't they beautiful people?  YES!!!!!!  A meeting and day we will never forget!
 The now "old" Hannah's Hope building (our agency's transitional home) for over 60 children needing a home. 
 Just got home....and yes at this time Jonathan still didn't want anything to do with me really.  That has since changed :)
 Later in 2009 at my cousin's home :)
 Our pics for our updated homestudy for our next Ethiopian adoption........or so we thought.  The minute Jonathan had been home 9 months (ok ok a little sooner than that by a couple of weeks) we sent in our second application to All God's Children International. 
 But this next adoption that should have officially happened at the end of 2009 or at the latest the beginning of 2010 for our Naomi....would never happen.  Thanks to technicalities of the uscis (even though they approved us a year prior?? not that I am bitter or anything).  BIG BUMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Then in March we heard about the fact that it is indeed possible to adopt domestically even if you have several children from a bloggy friend.  We signed up with Christian Adoption Consultants on March 22nd.....we were given a possible situation right away of a little boy who needed a home and we thought this was it.....but BUMP the agency started asking all kinds of accusing questions of our large family and on March 23rd Joanna Faith Wright was being born.  We got a call from Tracie Loux again saying I know you may not be interested, but.....and when we called Mother Goose Adoptions we did it out of - well maybe. (*****UPDATE: we now work with CAC :).
 By the morning of March 24th it was Deb O'Kane calling us from Mother Goose Adoptions saying she is yours if you want her.....want to fly out today.  Well let's just say after the other agency's hesitancy and our hearts saying "is there a reason not to?"  And well within 24 hours I was on a plane to go meet our Joanna Faith Wright!
 Everyone meeting us at the airport when she was just a little over a week old at Houston's airport.
 Here we are as a family of 10!!!!  Easter morning :)
 And of course here she is.....our little doll! (not the one on the left :) he he he)  Just blame it on my husband's sense of humor :)
And here we are in October 2010!  With GG (my grandma).....and all our precious gifts.  Now if you notice that is 8 children in February 2001- March 2010!  You will also notice my bold print BUMPS in the road.  Lots of them.  BUT the BLESSINGS of our family are sooooo much more than all of those!  I wouldn't trade any tears, any stress, any craziness, any deep dark canyon times, for a single minute with my babes.  They are our world.  They are our ministry!  God has placed each and every one of them in our home.  Not easy, but worth it!

For the first time since 2001.....we are not in the process for our next adoption- I KNOW SHOCK!!!  I am still in shock.  I keep feeling like I should be getting some paperwork done of some kind or going to the court or something????  Will we adopt again.......always!  But for now....we are taking a break.  Of course there is a reason why.....but that will unfold over the 2011 year.  So keep tuned to the crazy happenings of The Wright Family and Have a Blessed New Year!!!

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